Incendiary Sex After 50: Field tested techniques for getting out of your head and into your body

Book Synopsis: Incredible, intimate, mind-blowing sex doesn't require flat tummies or ever-ready erections. It doesn't require strange new positions, handcuffs or Spiderman suits. You just need to “Be Here Now.” Join with fellow seniors Michael and Julia on a humorous and engaging journey to “Turn On your Ons, and Turn Off your Offs,” and create those timeless moments where the cares of the world fade away and you are living and loving in the moment. Learn life-tested techniques to take away the swirl of thoughts and worries and allow you to live each second fully as it happens. Incendiary sex over 50? Yes, you can have it!

There are moments in everyone’s life when you are “there.” Remember that moment when you said “I do,” and kissed? The moment when you first held your baby in your arms? The sunset you watched together with your partner, your head on his shoulder?

What do each of those moments have in common? You were “there,” right there in the moment. Without a thought for the moment before or the moment after. Living, really living with every fiber of your being.

Those are the best moments in life—what we call “Being Here Now.” We can help you bring that into your love life. We are talking about those timeless moments when the world disappears and it’s just the two of you sharing your bodies, your touch, your scent, your taste. Living each second fully as it happens. The experiences that leave you spent and breathless and bring a happy smile and a spring to your step for the rest of the day.

We show you how to temporarily take away the little pains and annoyances that come with life and age, and how to create a space made to hold those moments. We show you how to get out of your own head, how to stop the spinning dialog. We aren't going to teach you new sexual positions, or complicated fantasies. Instead we are going to teach you how to create that space where you can be safe, naked, together, and living moment to moment. You can take it from there.

This isn’t an ivory-tower psychology exercise. We are a loving, senior couple like you who have found through years of fun experimentation the keys to having the best sex of our lives, and we want to share with you what we have found. Here you will find candid and intimate real-world views from both the male and female side delivered in an engaging fashion, with humorous cartoons to illustrate our points and techniques.

In “The ABCs of Sex After 50,” we'll show you solutions to the changes in our bodies and our psychology that are interfering with a great sex life. We'll talk about the realities of erections, arousal and lubrication at our age, confidence, kindness, the magic of sex toys, what to do when things just aren’t working, masturbation and even Senior VD.

We'll give you the tips you need to “Be Here Now”. It's about how to stop the spinning in your head in our smart-phone, media-streaming, chore-list world. In “Mating Rituals” we put the “play” back into “foreplay”. You'll find personally tested and approved playtime activities that have led us to countless orgasms and mind-blowing incendiary sex sessions.

Maybe it’s been a loooong time for you. Maybe there is a lot of tension and baggage to get through. We'll help you through those difficult conversations and help you reconnect with your partner and your own body. Whatever age you are, you have all you need to have a close, loving, sensual time, and perhaps find the best sex you've ever had in your life. Imagine what it would be like to have a steamy, soul-enhancing love life. Now, come and join us on a journey to a better life.